Goth Girls’ Nights: A Year of Themed Gatherings for the Darkly Inclined

Goth Girls’ Nights: A Year of Themed Gatherings for the Darkly Inclined

12 unforgettable ways to spend time with friends in 2026

Quality time spent with your friendship family deserves to be treated as something special.

In a year that moves quickly, shared evenings become markers of memory rather than placeholders on a calendar.

This Goth Girls’ Night guide provides a monthly invitation to slow down, dress and entertain with intention, making each gathering feel singular and memorable rather than routine.

Consider this your blueprint for elevating ordinary moments into something especially memorable.

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How to Host a Gothic High Tea at Home
House & Haunt, Entertaining, High Tea, Hosting Guide Amanda Kotiesen House & Haunt, Entertaining, High Tea, Hosting Guide Amanda Kotiesen

How to Host a Gothic High Tea at Home

A Victorian-inspired winter ritual for dark romantics on snowbound afternoons

By: The Lace Ledger Staff

January invites a slow, sacred relationship with time.

The month encourages warmth, ritual and intention, whether gathered indoors or framed by falling snow.

The ceremony of high tea offers a refined way to mark the season, whether your alone with a book or seeking sanctuary from the weather with friends.

High tea, as we know it today, emerged a tradition in the United Kingdom during the Victorian era as both a snack between lunch and dinner and an opportunity to entertain. The ritual balanced elegance with practicality, serving structured tiers of delicious treats alongside conversation, quality time and ambiance.

In gothic households, the ritual of high tea invites opportunity to brew up a witchy concoction, enjoy storied heirlooms or beloved antiques, curate a themed menu or wear en elegant outfit; the possibilities are endless.

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Exhibits of Devotion: Fetish, Fashion and Music Around the World
Travel, Sensuality, Fashion, Style, January Issue Amanda Kotiesen Travel, Sensuality, Fashion, Style, January Issue Amanda Kotiesen

Exhibits of Devotion: Fetish, Fashion and Music Around the World

Immersive galleries and exhibits to explore cultural inheritance

By: The Lace Ledger Staff

While on the surface, fetish, fashion and music may not appear to have a much in common, they share a through-line of devotion; each category is sustained by cult followings and has visible cultural impact.

Fetish carries its lineage through material commitment and coded practice while fashion preserves its heritage through silhouette, masterful craft and reference. Music sustains first through sound … first of a generation and then by nods from the artists that came after; while you also find it in lived memory, ideals and distinct communities.

Exhibits of Devotion examines how culture persists when lineage outlasts trend. What survives and why? What can it teach us? And, how to we celebrate its lessons and legacy?

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Witch’s Brew: The Winter Tea Edit
Amanda Kotiesen Amanda Kotiesen

Witch’s Brew: The Winter Tea Edit

For as long as women have been called witches, they’ve been brewing something sacred and medicinal.

In medieval Europe, herbal infusions were used for healing, protection, divination and midwinter endurance, with foraged plants—like mugwort, rosehip, elderflower and chamomile—appearing in countless folk remedies and ritual drinks.

These early teas weren’t delicate or dainty; they were crafted with intention, blended from what grew in the hedgerows and forests then steeped into potions meant to soothe nerves, warm bodies, sharpen intuition, guard against the unknown and more. The lineage of winter tea is ancient, and the ritual is unmistakably witchy—heat, herbs, steam, a moment stolen from the cold.

In that same spirit, we sourced six tea companies across Canada, the U.S. and the U.K. whose blends honour craft and with a touch of gothic sensibility. Each brand brings its own magic—whether through dark aesthetics, small-batch artistry, botanical depth or the kind of flavour that wraps itself around a cold day.

Below, you’ll find the standout blends we think are worth brewing, sipping and maybe even incorporating into your newest winter ritual.

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The Cold Garden and Its Keeper 
House & Haunt Amanda Kotiesen House & Haunt Amanda Kotiesen

The Cold Garden and Its Keeper 

A Conversation with Riley Greco, Floral Designer and Fine Artist

By: The Lace Ledger Staff

Winter arrangements tell a different story entirely, and Riley Greco approaches them with the precision of someone who understands how colour theory and aesthetic shapes mood. Her work moves with the quiet authority of someone who learned composition before she ever touched a bouquet – it holds the stillness of winter and the discipline of fine art, together forming a style that belongs entirely to her.

Our conversation traces the mood of winter floral design, from the textures that anchor a dark bouquet to the colours that sharpen in colder light. Riley speaks with an artist’s sense of structure and a florist’s instinct for emotional detail; the result is a story that reveals how a winter arrangement becomes something more than décor. It becomes a portrait of the season and the hands that shape it.

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The Sinful Soirée: How to Host a Seven Deadly Sins-Themed Party
Amanda Kotiesen Amanda Kotiesen

The Sinful Soirée: How to Host a Seven Deadly Sins-Themed Party

A gothic guide to indulgence — where every bite, song and shimmer celebrates the beauty of our flaws

By: The Lace Ledger Staff

We fear our flaws the most when we keep them hidden. The moment we bring them into the light, they lose their sharpness and their shame. According to Britannica, the Seven Deadly Sins began as a medieval moral framework designed to guide behaviour and restrain desire. The list was meant to warn, not enchant.

The modern eye sees something different. We see a portrait of human nature rather than a catalogue of behaviour to be systematically eradicated. We contain every sin in small, complicated ways. We always have.

This guide reframes those sins through a more indulgent lens.

It invites you to honour the year’s light and shadow in equal measure. It positions each sin as a theme rather than a threat. It offers a sample menu inspired by appetite and mood, decor ideas shaped by theatre, colour and symbolic in detail, dress code notes designed to let guests embody the sin they choose and a playlist created to turn tension into atmosphere.

It gives you everything you need to host a night where nothing human has to be hidden and every flaw becomes part of the fun.

This is how to throw a Seven Deadly Sins-themed holiday party — equal parts decadent and divine.

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Hauntingly Chic: A Gothic Guide to Hosting the Perfect Halloween Party
Amanda Kotiesen Amanda Kotiesen

Hauntingly Chic: A Gothic Guide to Hosting the Perfect Halloween Party

Elevate the eerie, skip the tacky, craft a haunting night your guests won’t forget

Halloween is the one night where the world joins us, leaning into the shadows, yet, too often, the occasion gets buried under plastic bones and fluorescent orange clutter.

A gothic gathering deserves leagues better than disposable novelty; it calls for atmosphere, intention and a touch of old-world decadence. Think of your party not as a theme night, but as an immersive experience, one where every candle, every glass and every glance carries the thrill of the darkly inclined. Hosting this way means that your guests won’t just attend a party–they will step into a story that they will embody from beginning to end.

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The Haunted Study: Designing a Home Office That Summons Creativity
House & Haunt, Decor Amanda Kotiesen House & Haunt, Decor Amanda Kotiesen

The Haunted Study: Designing a Home Office That Summons Creativity

From candlelit corners to heirloom desks, transform your workspace into a sanctuary where creativity never sleeps.

For the gothic creative, a home office should not be a boring, sterile space –  it’s not merely a desk and chair, but a sanctum where words are conjured and art is born. 

To create an office that fosters true creativity, think less in terms of function alone and more as ritual—an environment designed to awaken your imagination as well as honour those who came before you.

We’ve identified five areas to inject gothic inspiration into your space, each one an anchor for both function and atmosphere. These elements are touchstones that ground your daily rituals and spark imagination, ensuring your office feels less like a dull workroom and more like a haunted study where creativity thrives.

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Eternal Interiors: Otherworldly Gothic Elegance that Outlives Halloween
House & Haunt Amanda Kotiesen House & Haunt Amanda Kotiesen

Eternal Interiors: Otherworldly Gothic Elegance that Outlives Halloween

Your guide to creating an atmospheric space that outlasts seasonal kitsch

For those of us who cherish the hauntingly beautiful, macabre and mysterious, why limit ourselves to enjoying the accompanying decor for just one month out of the year? 

With a few tasteful touches, you can bring to life a year-round Halloween vibe that’s undeniably stylish and dark without crossing into the realm of tacky, disposable decor. 

Here’s how to embrace a subtle yet eerie aesthetic that channels the magic of Halloween without the gimmick.

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The Stillness That Speaks: Ethical Taxidermy as Decor
Amanda Kotiesen Amanda Kotiesen

The Stillness That Speaks: Ethical Taxidermy as Decor

A guide to honouring creatures through mindful craft and gothic interiors

There’s a quiet reverence in the gaze of a glass-eyed fox.

It’s not horror that draws us to taxidermy—it’s memory. Mystery. A love letter to mortality rendered in bone, fur and shadow.

In the wrong hands, it's a spectacle. But in the right home? It’s sanctum. Sacred. A curated echo of wild beauty held still, not silenced.

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Feast & Fortune: A Gothic Guide to Luxury Kitchens by Archetype
Amanda Kotiesen Amanda Kotiesen

Feast & Fortune: A Gothic Guide to Luxury Kitchens by Archetype

A kitchen is so much more than function — it’s a stage for desire, alchemy and indulgence. The utility of appliances extends beyond face-value use, becoming a statement piece, a talisman of taste, a tool for satisfying appetites of all kinds. 

In this guide, we’ve matched each archetype to a luxury kitchen splurge — appliances chosen not only for function but for their resonance with personality and pleasure. Each piece is paired with moods and moments to elevate cooking into gothic theater.

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Highland Hauntings: A Gothic Scotch Guide for Nightfall
Amanda Kotiesen Amanda Kotiesen

Highland Hauntings: A Gothic Scotch Guide for Nightfall

Scotch was born of fire and fog, a storied spirit distilled from Highland barley and lowland water, first whispered into existence by monks and farmers who sought to trap warmth in a glass when it wasn’t available in abundance (or with the flip of the thermostat). 

By the 1500s, it had grown in popularity, revered and outlawed in equal measure. Over centuries, peat smoke, oak casks combined with patient aging transformed this coveted elixir into the darkly romantic spirit we know now. 

Even at present day, it carries the ghost of clan feasts, smuggler’s caves, aristocratic drawing rooms – each dram capturing a piece of Scotland's legacy. 

It’s a mood infused with the smoke of the earth, the salt of the sea and the sweetness of time itself, making it the perfect companion for femmes who live by gothic archetype and intention. 

In this guide, every TLL muse finds her cask: The Widow in the smoke, The Heiress in the oak, The Brat in the delicious burn.

Each bottle isn’t just tasting notes — it’s an identity poured neat, paired with the sweet and savoury bites, music and moments worth savouring.

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